New friendships and a slower, more balanced lifestyle, Nisha reflects on a transformative year abroad that reshaped how she sees the world—and herself.

On a chilly July morning, I met Nisha for her photoshoot commemorating her year living and working in Australia. I wanted a spot that was quintessentially Melbourne but not too crowded—St. Kilda beach on a winter day was perfect.

Though we hadn’t formally met before, we connected quickly. Nisha was a natural in front of the camera, partly thanks to her past modeling experience—but also because I believe I can make almost anyone feel comfortable through listening and intentional conversation.

Many people think a great photo is about having a great camera. That’s partly true, but what matters more is how the photographer connects with their subject and helps them feel safe to be themselves. This is what makes each portrait photographer unique.

If you’ve ever thought, “I could never do a photoshoot by myself… I’m too nervous… anxious… self-conscious… unattractive…” then give me a chance to show you otherwise. Often, people just haven’t worked with someone who makes them feel confident, safe, and at ease.

After 15 years photographing teens and young people, no one has ever told me they had a traumatic or uncomfortable experience. Usually, they come in nervous but then end up collaborating with me on ideas. We often lose track of time by the end of it.

Here are some things Nisha and I talked about during our shoot. She’s since returned to France, but I know she’ll carry these memories—and these images—with her for a long time.

What drew you to Melbourne for your work experience?
 Before coming to Australia, I saw that Melbourne was ranked among the cities with the best quality of life. I really wanted to experience a more chill and relaxing lifestyle, different from what I was used to in France.

What surprised you the most (any culture shock) when you first arrived in Australia?
 The first culture shock I had was in a shop. The seller asked me, “How are you?” and I didn’t expect that at all. In France, shop assistants don’t usually ask you personal questions, so at first it felt strange — but then I realized it’s part of the Australian friendliness.

What was your favorite place in Melbourne? I had many favorite places, but I especially loved St Kilda. It feels so peaceful, almost like being on vacation. The atmosphere there is calming and really different from the city rush.

How did you grow as a person during your time here?
 I became much more confident in myself. Traveling alone really strengthens you mentally, and I learned to be more social. I met amazing people, and through them I discovered more about Australian culture and values.

Tell us about a challenge you faced while living in Australia — and how you handled it.
 The biggest challenge was the language barrier. Before coming, I could understand English, but speaking was difficult since I never practiced it much in France. Here, by speaking every day, it gradually became easier and now I feel much more comfortable.

What was the most unexpected thing you learned about yourself?
 I discovered that I adapt very quickly and can integrate into new environments fast. But the most surprising thing was realizing that I became more open to sharing my feelings — something I wasn’t used to doing before.

Did any local friendships or encounters really shape your experience?
 Honestly, every person I met shaped my experience in some way. Each moment I spent with different people gave me good memories, and together they made my time in Australia unforgettable.

How do you think this year changed your perspective on the world?
 This year taught me to appreciate even the small things. In France, I’m often too caught up in the rush of daily life. But in Australia, I learned to enjoy simple moments — even just going grocery shopping felt like something special!

If you could go back to the version of you who first arrived, what would you say to her?
 I would simply tell her: “You’re going to change.”

If someone your age was thinking of doing what you did, what would you tell them? 
I already tell people to do it! Taking a break from your routine helps you truly get to know yourself. Life often keeps us so busy that we don’t take time to reflect. This experience taught me so much about who I am, and I would recommend it to anyone.

Nisha’s year in Melbourne was more than a change of scenery—it was a journey of growth. She embraced new challenges, found her confidence, made new friends, and discovered the joy in slowing down. Her story is a reminder: stepping out of your routine can change your life in ways you never imagined.